AITAH for raising rent on my 18 (almost 19) year old who has all the answers?
I will preface that we have been honest with our daughters ,we have 3, about life and what is expected as they grow up. We explained we would always be here for a hand up ( not a hand out) meaning help the with shelter food etc while they are working, saving, and planing for there futures. reasonable?
My middle daughter we’ll call her Megan is almost 19. She decided to enter the work force instead of college as it was a better fit for her. She had a union job secured she started right away with benefits and retirement. All of my children were also helped by family so they ended up will a mid 700 credit score. Received a small inheritance. Everything set up and ready for her to make an excellent start.
Megan however has decided to make the following choices. 1.Wrecked her car speeding (this raised our insurance 300 a month we also paid for tow and license fee when she forgot to report to dmv) 2. Decided to not only date a felon but one who is a alcoholic (3 duii, 3 eluding, 1 at fault accident while fleeing on a motorcycle while flipping off the cops.) He has just up her saving, won’t work, was kicked out for refusing to help around house even though he was not paying rent. Left her until the day she bought her car and received her inheritance. 3. Decided to come home blackout drunk (thank god she was safe) by said felon (also trashed) in her brand new car we just insured.
Be real aitah or am I resonable?
