So my BD bought me Cardi B concert tickets for $1,200 when she first announced the tour.
This was months ago. The concert isn’t until May next year, and we were supposed to go together. I didn’t even know the section yet I was just excited to have them.
Christmas comes around, and he invites a coworker to our holiday gathering. Later that day, I find out he also bought her Cardi B tickets as part of a “Secret Santa.” Same concert. I don’t know what section hers are in either. That already felt off. Later, I went to grab my tickets. I know exactly where I put them. They weren’t there. I searched everywhere.
When I asked him about it, instead of helping me look, he started yelling in front of everyone. Talking about how he “spent his last dime,” asking how I could lose something so expensive, making it seem like I was careless and ungrateful. While he’s doing all this, the coworker walks up, grabs his arm, pulls him away, and looks back at me while they walk off together.
That didn’t feel innocent at all. I’ve been searching the house all day, and the more I think about it, the more I feel like he gave my tickets to her and is gaslighting me so he doesn’t have to admit it.
Especially since I don’t know the sections for either set of tickets. Now I’m questioning if something is going on between them. On top of everything, I’m pregnant and he doesn’t know yet. And honestly, I’m thinking about abortion, because if he really gave away my tickets and embarrassed me in front of people, that tells me exactly where I stand. So be honest Would you assume he gave her my tickets? Is this gaslighting? Why invite her to the party at all? And what would you do if you were pregnant and couldn’t trust him? Because something doesn’t add up and I can’t prove it
