AITA here? So me and my bf has been together for about 5 months or something. To put it quick and to the point, eventually my truck broke down he fixed the minor issue it had and then eventually the motor is knocking and close to blowing so we just kept it off and parked in his front yard…. It’s been sitting outside for months now and he keeps saying he’ll fix it he’ll fix it but all he did was took the spark plugs off or something and it can’t start at all, Like why mess with it if u weren’t gonna put it back…. Anyways, I have NO money to get it fixed. I eventually asked him if I could use his car to get around at first he was weird bout it but I use his car often AFTER I ask him “can I take ur car?” Like I’m a fkn 13 yr old kid…. I just want my own car is all…. Also I’m stuck in the house doing dishes, laundry, and 9 weeks pregnant with his child. I feel like a slave…. My phone is turned off too… I have pets and with the 2 cats I’m not suppose to clean litter boxes but he never offers to clean it he just says “I can help you”…. WHY DO I NEED HELP DOING SOMETHKNG IVE FONE FOR THE PAST 10 YEARS….. why can’t he just offer to do it bc I told him numerous times I should not be doing it…. I think he’s scared to touch “nasty” stuff he ain’t rednecky like me idgaf lol ig my problem here is….. he tells me how “traditional” he is and I can’t help to think a big NOT…. He goes to work pays all HIS bills come home and play video games while I’m at home struggling with my own problems. What’s the point in dating if I’m gonna fight my own problems by myself??? Why can’t he just offer to buy me a $500 bucket? He talks to me all the time about “I just bought a mustang part” oh cool, meanwhile my truck is outside dead….. why can’t he offer to pay my phone bill? Why can’t he clean the litter boxes? How is it not much to give me ur child but u can’t fix my problems? Dont get me wrong he does do some things for me like buy my dogs dog food, we go out to eat mahbe once or twice but…i need help with the things that are bothering me lol Men provide women nurture…. If im gonna have to go to work while pregnant and bust my butt to get money to fix my own truck and pay my own bills then I can just stay living with my Dad
my dad has broke his neck to support my mom, his two kids his whole life since he was 17 wen I was first born and he’s in his 40s now. He bought my mom a car, made sure it was paid before his own car was, and he always paid my mom’s phone bill and took care of her and us! Did men forget what traditionally is? If I have to get my own money and deal with my own problems then no thanks I did not sign up to be a slave in his house while he expects me to give him sexy time…. He wonders why I’m never in the mood…. Am I the bad person? I’m sorry it’s so long
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