AITA?
My boyfriend knows I just started work a few weeks ago after not working for almost ten years (stay at home mom)
He knows I’ve been exhausted and literally falling asleep by 5-7 pm because my sleep patterns are off, I’m exhausted, and I’ve also been extremely ill with persistent stomach problems, severe wisdom tooth pain (waiting for surgery), heart problems, extremely low blood sugar, constant migraines due to my wisdom teeth, eating problems due to my teeth and stomach etc etc. the list goes on.
I’m also going through a very serious and stressful custody battle. So basically, my days are booked solid I’m lucky to have 1-2 days off over the weekend. He is pissed at me because I don’t want to go for long drives late at night with him, spend time with his family daily when I’m done work when I don’t even get time with my own, and now he’s losing it on me because he randomly spur of the moment booked me something -he won’t even tell me what it is- and expected to pick me up from an appointment today and drive me out of town directly there as a surprise even though I expected to go home and eat and sleep because I’m exhausted and starving and haven’t even showered.
I asked well why didn’t you ask me first so I could at least have showered a bit to wake up or ate first you know I’m exhausted and hungry and running myself ragged and he just straight up expected me to say ok and drop everything. Mind you he also knew I had very important phone calls to make and a very small window to do all of that so why my priorities went out the window is frustrating. I get it. You tried to do something nice. But I work and he doesn’t. I’m tired and constantly on the go.
Is it fair I asked him to reschedule and turn around? He’s also trying to force me to go out with him tomorrow night. I’m assuming the appointment today was for my nails or the spa, because he wants to go to a concert tomorrow that again I did not agree to as it’s my only day off and I hoped to rest and relax
Don’t get me wrong, I’m thankful… I just don’t think he sees it from my perspective here I feel so bad idk what to do
