AITAH for getting mad at my grandmother for watching the same shows for 3 years.
I (23M) got mad at my grandmother for watching the same shows over and over for the past 3 years. For context, I’ve lived with my grandparents for half my life, they practically raised me. Her “addiction” started way back in 2019 after my grandfather die***d. It wasn’t a big deal at first since I suspect it was a way for her to distract herself from our family’s loss. But as days went by, she just continued watching the same shows over and over again. I’d be lying if I say it didn’t annoy me. The shows were played by the same actors, so essentially, she was watching her favorite actor’s shows.I feel like she got depressed and used the shows as an outlet and distraction from all the negative feelings she may be bottling up. I understand all of this completely. However, it has gotten to a point were she would forget and ignore her own needs. She would forget to go to the bathroom, resulting her peeing on herself. She’d stay up late finishing the same shows. She’d wake up early just to tell us to charge her phone and tablet (she has 3 devices, 2 phones and 1 tablet. The other phone was my late grandfather’s. We prohibit her from using it as we use it only for calls with my extended family).Fast forward to now, I just got back from my 8-5 work and the first thing she asked me was to put on a show for her. I don’t know what happened but it just ticked me off and I confronted her about it. I told her how I just got back home and her first thought was her show. I went off to tell her that she’s addicted and that I’m sick of hearing the same voices in our house. She went silent. I realized what had happened so I just rushed to my room instantly.I’ve had a lot of thinking after that incident. Was I too harsh? I just don’t know how to handle all this.