Let’s call him Jack. Who’s very close knit with his parents not an issue whatsoever. His parents are actually pretty nice. The issue that I’m having is with the acquaintance that lives in his parents home. Let’s call her Sophia(70-80yrs).
His parents live within two blocks of our home so we do get to see them a lot, and Sophia lives in a room that was rented to her and she’s been living there for quite some time she has gotten to be a big part of the family and is often invited to family events and gatherings to the point where some of Jack’s cousins call her auntie.
Sophia and I have known each other since pretty much the beginning of Jack’s relationship which is about four years and she has always been a bit inappropriate for my taste for example, there was a situation where we had family ( jacks side of the family) visiting over from Florida , some of Jack’s cousins are a bit overweight we don’t judge we don’t talk t o them about it. We just tell them to take care of themselves .
One night as we were all sitting in the dining room area and just talking one of the cousins stated that they were a bit cold at which point Sophia decided to comment that it was weird that they are cold as they’re overweight and overweight people never get cold.
We had another situation where in the same trip we all went out to eat fast food Sofia offered to pay this isn’t something out of the ordinary whenever she does pay my in-laws either help her out with the rent keep in mind that they’re her landlord so they just cut her some slack at the time of pain. Sophia stepped away and we had a long line at the restaurant. My boyfriend decided that the best thing to do was just to pay because they needed to move a line and Sophia had the biggest tantrum because she wasn’t allowed to pay.
Sophia was also invited to a family trip to Las Vegas prior to me dating Jack and Jack and his father mentioned that she had a similar tantrum and every time that we go to Vegas, they remember and share that they will never invite her to any family trips again because of that.
she is known to be extra, sometimes disrespectful with her comments, even to my in-laws and later coming back and apologizing to them, her kids limit the amount of visits that they have with Sophia because of the same issue and based on all of these little interactions, very limited, I have grown to have a sour taste for her.
I find her disrespectful and it seems that she might have some kind of undiagnosed mental issue and I feel like this is why the family justifies a lot of her actions at the same time. I just don’t find it enough because it’s nothing where it’s concrete that she has a mental issue. Her comments
