Am I the A-hole? My husband had surgery Monday.
It was colon surgery so the week leading up he had to prep, eat a certain way etc. that whole week I helped him with e everything, made his food cleaned our house top to bottom to make sure we were ready. Since his surgery Monday I’ve helped him from getting water all the time to making homemade soup to keeping his medicine on schedule. Well today is our daughters 8th grade graduation. He is allowed to go per the doctor BUT he chose not to due to it being painful to sit for long periods (I understood completely). So I went (alone) because we don’t have family where we live aside from an brother and sister in law who work. After the ceremony my daughter wanted to go with all of her friends and their parents to lunch to celebrate. He was upset and said no. This is a milestone for her and I was upset. He may have some pain but he is fine now. But he was mad saying I’m an awful horrible wife for leaving him today (mind you I went to the ceremony and only dropped our daughter off to lunch I did not stay). The I’m this and that for even leaving him. How could I do this? It’s gone on and on. Total time gone 4 hours and I had my phone with me the whole time if he needed me. I’m just frustrated. Am I in the wrong for going to her ceremony and dropping her off to friends for a celebration lunch?
