AITA For needing clarity about sketchy phone messages?
I’ll try to be quick. I’ve been seeing a guy for a couple months. Started off very slow. This past weekend was the first time we spent the night together and hung out in my area since we live an hour apart. Up until now schedules have made it easier for me to go his way.
Without getting overwhelmed by detail here are the flags I saw this weekend while being snowed in together. Is it me or is this all BS?
1) we typically only text but occasionally FaceTime. I’ve know he’s had 2 phones the entire time. I have the number to both. One is a business phone (android) and one is personal (iphone). I was/am the appropriate level of skeptical and asked a million questions about why he has 2 phones. I can’t find the lie no matter how hard I look. He’s been a saint and answers all questions without hesitation. Even when the answer is not ideal.
Fast forward to yesterday and I was picking him up from his sister’s house (20 mins from me so also an hour from him) after her bday celebration the night before and got lost. I called the number to the phone we text on (iPhone connected to his email and a phone number. iMessages always come through his email and he said he sets it like that on purpose for business matters) and someone else answered. Also a guy.
I got confused and asked who he was and the person was also confused since I had called him lol. I hung up but the person called back and I explained briefly and they said they didn’t know the guy I was seeing. At the same time I was on the phone with mystery person the guy I’m seeing was attempting to call over FaceTime. Obviously when I finally found his sister‘s house and he got in the car I told him what happened and that I was confused.
AITAH for not being satisfied by his answer of “my phone must have gotten turned off and T-Mobile gave away the number”?? And then asking how he was using it to text and use data when he’s not on wifi if he isn’t paying his bill and the number got turned off? AM I CRAZY OR IS THIS A PILE OF 
2) I dropped him off in a different town than I picked him up. I was under the impression I was dropping him at his sisters but Turns out I had dropped him off at his sister’s sister’s house because they were going there for drinks. His sisters car was parked out front when I dropped him off and the same car was parked out front when I picked him up in the other town. I saw a Facebook post of them singing happy birthday to her so I know he was definitely with his sister and brother in law. Am I the AH for feeling weird about the fact that he wasn’t clear about where I was dropping him?
Up until now, he has answered every question that I’ve had even the crazy ones with a smile on his face. Yesterday, when I picked him up from his sisters, he was a completely different person with a completely different vibe and answering my questions was not something he’s willing to do. This is a huge red flag to me and I just wanna make sure that I’m not actually the crazy one because the phone number thing is honestly making me feel like maybe I AM crazy. 
Can someone explain the phone number thing to me because I don’t understand why the guy I was seeing was getting messages I was sending to a phone number that someone else was answering when I called.  I assume it has something to do with his email address because even after I took the phone number out the texts were still going to his iPhone through his email. Make it make sense because tech is not for me ha ha. 
