AITAH for not tell my friend my shampoo had green hair dye in it?
I’m a guy with a bright green mohawk. i’ve had green hair for a while. i have to use a lot of hairspray to get it to stick up so i have to wash my hair almost everyday. this makes the green fade pretty fast so i mix green hair dye with my shampoo and conditioner to make the color last longer. this is a common thing people with colored hair do.
anyways, one of my friends stayed the night at my apartment after a show we went to because she missed her bus. in the morning she asked if she could shower. she obviously didn’t have anything of hers because she hadn’t planned to stay the night so i let her use my stuff. i showed her how to use my shower and told her to use my husband’s shampoo and conditioner because “mine is for my green hair” and she said “okay” i gave her a towel, left, and she took a shower.
when she came out i heard her gasp and scream and i asked her if she was okay. she started screaming that her hair was green and sure enough her blonde hair had green splotches all throughout. i asked her why she used my shampoo and conditioner when i told her it was for my green hair and she said she thought i meant it was a good, special shampoo and i just wanted to keep it for myself and that i should have specifically told her it had green dye in it.
for context: the bottles are pink and opaque but the caps are clear and are now stained green. the liquid inside is also green from the dye. i told her i thought it was obvious what i meant, but if she didn’t fully understand me, she should’ve just respected my things enough to not to use them simply because i told her. she did not like that. now she won’t talk to me and is telling all our other friends i’m an asshole for not telling her about the dye.
maybe i could have been more specific but idk i don’t think i’m the asshole here.
AITAH?
