WIBTAH for snitching on my cousin?
Me 20f and my cousin 17f were never really that close growing up both her and her sister got into a lot of trouble and I didn’t wanna be around it even if we are “family” I’ve always known they had a hard time growing up their mom was super strict. For example if I was staying the night we weren’t allowed to go downstairs for ANYTHING so we’d have to sneak to the hallway bathroom if we wanted water or something.
Around 1 month ago my cousin was kicked out and CPS was called my mom said she would stay with our close grandma for school and on weekends she could stay with us and I was fine with that because she was supposed to be sleeping in the living room.
Right off the bat she was getting into trouble she say she’s with a friend when really she was with an older dude from some random dating app and he home late but my mom always believed her when she made excuses.
One day my mom told her she could sleep in the room with me MIND you I share a room with my big sis 21f she’s not here right now she’s away for college but this is still her space too and I know my sister wouldn’t like her in her bed using her sheets and stuff cause we didn’t have extra.
Ever since she’s been in the room with me it’s been irritation she stays up all night talking to random dudes about things I haven’t even done yet! I’m talking GROWN and me personally I don’t wanna hear that
She’s been sneaking out of grandmas house at night too have sex, smoke or drink
And she stays up till like 12 too and it’s hard for me to sleep with headphones on so I have no clue what to do I’ve already tried asking her to keep it down nicely.
Even though she comes home super late at like 5 in the morning my mom never seems to suspect anything if anything she forces me to stay up so I can make sure she gets home
And finally she leaves my bedroom door WIDE open all the time for 1 I sleep with no pants it’s been like this since I was a toddler and my parents don’t care but I still don’t like people seeing me in my underwear and then we have 2 cats as well
It’s my parents catsthey know I do not like cats and that I don’t want them in my room but yet she keeps letting them in and then whenever she asks why I like the door closed I say “cause I don’t want the cats in my room” then she’ll say some crap like “our room”
But it’s not “our” room it’s me and my sisters room and frankly I’m very tired of having to watch over her I’m going to talk to my mom about it and tell her about it and if she asks about what my cousins been doing I’m gonna tell her the whole thing “snitching” you could say WIBTAH or should I think on this more?
