AITAH for coming at my sister while she’s trying to plan my bachelorette party?
Looking for quick advice and I will be deleting this post after.
My oldest sister and middle sister are planning my bachelorette party with my sister in law. My sister in law is going through a divorce, is now a single mother of 5. So basically her life has just turned upside down in the last could of months. Recently her oldest daughter tried to unalive herself due to the divorce. My sister in law called my fiancé a couple days ago in tears over this situation. I guess during this time, my sister had texted her regarding the bachelorette party but she did not answer. Keep in mind this is all within a two day period.
My middle sister calls me last night and told me my oldest sister was planning to send my sister in law a long rude text saying if she doesn’t start responding quicker she will just drop out of the planning. As soon as I heard this I sent a text to my oldest sister telling her that my sister in law is going through a lot, she will get back to you when she can, and there’s no rush as the wedding is still months away. She responded “everyone goes through stuff, so are we just supposed to wait to do anything until she’s done going through stuff?” I told her if she cant be patient and understanding that maybe she should drop out of the plans.
After a lot of back and forth between me and my oldest sister I got annoyed and felt like my oldest sister was being inconsiderate of other people so I just stopped responding. I don’t feel comfortable telling her my sister in laws business but I also don’t want my sister to think she’s “being ignored like the plague”.
AITHA for coming at my sister while she’s trying to plan my bachelorette party?
