AIO in re-thinking my engagement after how my GF treated me while sick with a bad flu?
relationship
My (35) and my fiancee(32F) have been together for about 4 years , lived with each other for 1 year and recently engaged
We recently got back from an overseas trip for a wedding and I had caught a bad flu bug. So bad I passed out standing in the airport line and had to be checked over by paramedics but was allowed to keep flying
We got home late and I also while walking up the stairs in our home I basically got light headed and had to sit down. I finally made it to bed. While we were gone her Mom was house sitting for us staying over
So I had very bad diarrhea and she knew this as while walking through the airport and on the plane I was in the bathroom about every 15 min and I told her this embarrassing fact.
The next morning she woke about around 8:30 am , once she woke up I asked her if she could go to the store and pick up some Imodium / pepto and maybe some sprite/gatorade as I was really dehydrated
Her first response was “Do I need to go now”, I get I probably should have said yes but I didn’t want to be pushy so I was like “Well you can have coffee and get ready but I am super dehydrated and really feel like shit, and any time I drink water 10 min later I am on the toilet again”
She gets up and talks with her mom about the trip , has breakfast , around 11 AM her mom jumps in the shower so I go down stairs to talk to her about going to the store
She basically snaps at me and says “Let me say good by to my mom, why didn’t you buy those at the airport yesterday ? I will go after I say good by to my mom ok?”
At about 12:30 pm I sign up for door dash what I had never done, order the medicine , sprite and pepto and honestly I am impressed its here by 1:00PM
When it got delivered my girl friends mom was like what is that?
I basically told her it was just medicine since I was sick and did not want to go to the store so I got it via door dash and she was like , you didn’t need to order online I could have gone to the store quick and picked it up!
However after this I am seriously questioning my relationship right now, not that it matters much but there is a store about 1/4 mile from my home, its about a 3-4 min drive . It would have literally taken 15 min max to pick it up .
The reason is I was sick, really sick, I asked her to do one simple thing and she blew it off for like 5 hours .
