AITA for telling my sister that she ruined my childhood and I was happy when she was taken away.

AITA for telling my sister that she ruined my childhood and I was happy when she was taken away.

My sister was a mess growing up, and it greatly affected my childhood. She went off the deep end at the beginning of middle school and she became a nightmare at home

She was a huge bully to me in basically every way. My parents did send her to therapy and it drain the family dry. It didn’t help ( actually it got worse after that). She was in the wrong crowd at school so my parents decided to move states away to get a fresh start

I lost all my friends just so she could go back to being a problem at school. My mom was called in the first weeke since she fought someone.

At 16, she was arrested and it was enough that she was sent to Juvie. My parent could have done house arrest but decided against it which I am grateful for.

She is 23 now and is going to community college. After she got out she didn’t want anything to do with our parents ( her right). I am 20 and going to college myself.

We are in contract and something met up. We usually don’t talk any deep issue, light conversation.

We got dinner this weekend and It was going okay until she started shitting on our parents. She was ranting she wasn’t that bad and that they abandoned her.

She went on and said she was fine and they overreacted.

I had enough and told her that she ruined my childhood and I was happy when she was taken away becuase then she would leave me alone. She was a problem and if she can’t see that after going to juvie I don’t know what else can get that through.

She called me a jerk and that I have no idea how bad that place was. I told her I really don’t care since she made my life hell for years.

She sent me one text that if I want to see her again I will need to apologize. My roommate knows the story and was telling me she probably has trauma and I should be more understanding