AITA?
Keep this in mind: It’s been 5 years…..I’m married to my wonderful wife now and I’ve healed so many wounds.
Okay so recently an abusive ex of mine texted me trying to talk about the past. I really don’t like to even consider this person an ex for reasons you’ll hear in a second.
Anyways they texted me essentially wanting to talk about the past and how they treated me and say how they weren’t a great person ( no shit), saying BS like we had something special blah blah ya know the basic ex can’t get over you spill.
I simply replied-
I have no reason to talk about this but I’ll at least give you my truth ( which they wouldn’t accept). The relationship was a rebound that went way too far and never should have. I was trying a void in a unhealthy way after leaving my at the time fiancee that was cheating on me while I was working and attending IT bootcamp classes to get certified. I was lost and broken and made poor choice. Not to mention I was also drinking a ton and don’t even recall how the relationship even started, so really you took advantage of me and my situation because I had money from income and a roof. It’s been 5 years and your still on this and really need to get over it and stop randomly messaging on platforms because I’m happily married and want absolutely nothing to with you.
After they read this they need attempted to insult my wife by saying my wife looks like them before they transitioned ( news flash my wife is way hotter)
So I reply again-
Don’t insult my wife like that, she is 100% way better looking than you ever were or will be. I was never even attracted to you, I was just drunk most of the time and when I did start to sober up I literally wouldn’t even let you near me. Only reason I couldn’t leave is because you wouldn’t let me.
( Yes the ex in question is trans, didn’t have issue with that, they were just ugly and abusive).
Anyways AITA for simply stating the truth? Like I said this “relationship” was 5 years ago. ( Before people ask, yes my wife is fully aware of this exchange)
